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Being in love, obsession and etc….

Do you have anyone so fond of so you want to be with the person all the time? You may feel like can’t get enough of him/her so think about them when you are apart from them?

You may be in love and I say congratulations! I love being in love and it is one of those joys in our lives. I encourage people to fall in love and I would love to fall in love again and again myself too.

However some of my clients decided not to fall in love again because they had hard break-ups or betrayal and it is very unfortunate.

We all know why we don’t want to fall in love again, right? Falling in love and being in love are such dreamy feelings and joy though….

However, when we have break-up, we wouldn’t want to fall in love again. Why? Because simply, we don’t want to get hurt again in up coming break-up or heart break, right?

Then I must say that in the whole relationship or love experience, we take the hard part more than the sweet and good parts.

In other words, we don’t appreciate the sweet and dreamy parts well enough though we take the hard part well enough so we decided not to fall in love again, well, psychologically saying.

Then I must say that we may lose another wonderful opportunity to fall in love because of the negative way of thinking of ours.

Or in the laws of attraction, another break-up is so likely when you decide that another love will be hard break-up on you, that is why you decided not to fall in love again.

I don’t want you all miss any opportunity to fall in love because it is such wonderful experiences, aren’t they?

Anyway, I am going back to the topic in above, when you can’t stop thinking about some particular person or things.

if you are not in love but you can’t stop thinking of something or someone particularly. What makes you think of the person? First of all, you think of the “person” or “incidences that you had with the person”?

If you think of incidences and conversations with the person but not the person him/herself, probably your obsession is not about the person but the incidences and conversations that you have with him/her.

I used the word of obsession, yes. Obsession means that something or someone you can’t stop thinking about, right? Then when you are in love, it is totally you are obsessed with the person that we can say.