Know when and where run into who

Hello!

It’s weekend now and I realized that I am talking about much rather personal than usual in this week.

As a matter of fact, I rarely decide something so firmly beforehand. I feel like I rather go with the flow all the time. I even try not to decide something sometimes.

I understand how people feel when they firmly decide not to contact him/her again in their relationships.

Of course, everyone is different and some people are in special circumstances such as in some kind of domestic violence or abusive environments.

For those cases, situation is rather different though, ordinary, it is not best idea for us to decide something when we are very emotional.

Especially in romantic situation, we decide very firmly not to contact him/her ever again because we deeply get hurt.

Of course we feel very defensive and we never want to get hurt ever gain in the sense.

I tell this again and again though we all the creatures have defense mechanism and as our own instinct, we avoid any types of harms to our body and also mind.

It is about survival too for us to keep our genes without death and pass it on to another generation.

However as a creature with high intelligence and especially for those are practicing positive living in their lives, I am talking to you.

I have to say that we withdraw because we don’t want to get hurt again, that kind of motivation and reasoning don’t seem like most positive.