Rules for sin and forgiveness

It is always about human ego to make trouble in our lives. We make wrong choices and decisions and finally make mistakes and sometimes those are awful ones including crime.

You may say that control is not issues of yours but I say all of the trouble we have is about our control issues.

Everyday we try to control our lives.

When you are in school, you wish to have good grades to get something you want, or you want someone to like you back.

We wish a lot of things and try to control whatever the situation we have and it is ok.

However we get upset when our control fails, then problems emerge.

We can wish though we start disliking the situation when the wish doesn’t come true.

Or our expectation doesn’t meet, then we can feel a lot of stress.

Then we might have a problem in the dependency department.

We love spending time with some people we love but we start feeling pretty upset when we can’t be with them.

We could get depressed and sad at relationship break up and it is ok, but it is going to be a problem and also feeling pretty negative when we start blaming our ex-partner.

At the end, some of us already decided not to fall in love again in their lives because they just want to avoid getting hurt again.

It is defense mechanism and also their expectation is that the bad heart break definitely will happen to them in their lives.

At the work, we expect a lot and dream of the success when we work hard.

However we get disappointed big time when things don’t go in the way we carefully planned.