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When true love can't be together


In yesterday’s column, I mentioned that punishment was a concept that human made. Yes, I believe so. I believe that the universe doesn’t punish us at all.

When you truly love someone, you always forgive. Yes, of course. Love is to accept, forgive and care.

That is why the universe forgives us rather than punish us.

Love in-between humans works in the same way as we forgive each other. However of course there is a choice that we can make as not to be with someone who hurts you again and again.

When your family member have trouble with drugs or something and bring trouble to you, you have to stay away from the person.

Love has boundary too.

We can say the same to a partner who performs domestic violence. Boundary exists when we completely forgive the person.

It is not like you can’t be with the person because you can’t forgive them. When you forgive them, you have boundary to protect yourself or avoid the situation that the partner can’t have a personal growth.

Even though the partner hurts you, you still are with them, it means there is no good boundary in-between you.

If you do, your partner will miss the chance to be better.

That is a case when you can’t be with someone who you truly love.

Allowing the partner to hurt you and stay in the relationship even when it is toxic may take the chance from the partner to seek a right treatment or simply being a better person.

Partnership should be cooperating to improve together. Speaking in the universal concept, we raise our vibrations together in our partnerships.